DONT CREATE YOUR OWN SOUNDTRACK DURING A MOVIE

Just a question...If you know that ppl are tryin to watch a movie why would you continuously talk and have a LOUD conversation? There is a fine line between wanting to talk and whispering to allow 19 other individuals to watch a movie. It cannot possibly be that much to talk about that for an entire week for 40 minutes a day you have to talk and stop others from watching a movie. I fail to believe that it is that serious of that you cant just pick up the phone and call the ppl you need to talk to so desperately. Also, if we all are supposed to be so "mature" we should all be mature enough to watch a movie in silence like young adults especially knowing that we have to write something on this movie that is going to be an assignment for a grade. Its one thing to not care about your grade or learning or whatever the case may be (not tryin to get personal) but its another to be rude and disrespect others trying to watch a movie just to run your mouth when you can do that anytime! Another thing, everytime something good happens in the movie you stop your convo to ask what happened and its quite annoying considering the fact that if you were listening and paying attention in the first place you would know what was going on in the movie!!! just had to get that off my chest cuz it was really frustrating me that 19 ppl in a class cant hear a movie cuz a few ppl wana tell their life stories instead!!!! :(

Daily Word 1/8/10

Good morning all, Today's word is one of simplicity, but if done will have a huge and noticeable impact on your life. It is this: Only surround yourself with positive ppl and eliminate/delete those who do not add anything positive to your person or your life. It will make you a better person no matter how hard it may be to let that person or ppl go. In 2010 be positive, stay focused, and never forget who you are or where you goin! I love you and I wish you the best!!!

~The one & Only MiZz SiSi ~

Today's Song: Michael Jackson- "Man in the Mirror"

*Today's Daily Word* 1/26/10

Today's daily word is one that is very difficult to go through with. It is this: Let go of and remove ppl in your life who do not add anything to the person you are and the person you are trying to become. Allow negative ppl to be negative without you and surround yourself with positivity and joy! By doing this you will see that 2010 will go a lot smoother and you will have many more memories to look back on. It will be very hard at first because some of the ppl closest to you may not have your best interest at heart, therefor getting rid of them will be very hard. However remain who you are and stay true to your goals, aspirations, and everything other form of growth that you have set for yourself in this new year. HAPPY NEW YEAR by the way!!!! lol :)

Today's Song is: Me, Myself, & I by Beyonce

Today's Daily Word 11/16/09

Today's daily word is one that can and will, (if you let it) affect your personal, social, and or love life. it is this: If you love someone be sure to not only tell them but show them on the regular because ppl dont last forever and no one should regret not telling and showing someone that you love them before they are no longer with you. It is not always easy to do, but at the same time it will pay off in the long run. Though you may fuss and fight with the ppl you love, it is safe to say that at least they are still here for you to fight and argue with!

~SiSi

Today's Song: One in a million-Aaliyah

Live/Laugh/Love & God bless

***MY MELISSA***

Is it me or does it seem like as soon as it gets cold outside cars wanna start actin up??? I got a saturn for my birthday last year (December) and my parents kept saying the dealership said everything had been checked and that everything was fine. Last Tuesday i was takin my sis and my niece to the city. I parked my car on the street where she lives. We went in her apartment for aboout 30 minutes. After i came out, i went to reverse out of the parking place my car wouldnt reverse. I had to put the car in reverse, press the gas, then the brake then it jerked and reversed. My sis got in the car and i went through this sequence again. She immediately said i was haveing "transmission trouble." Not being able to reverse, i get back on the expressway and take it to autozone because the "service engine soon" light came on. Autozone hooked it up to a machine that said i either needed some transmission fluid or a new transmission. The guy checked my trans fluid and said it was clean and full so that only left one thing.......TRANSMISSION TROUBLE!!!! I called my dad and told him and he called his mechanic. His mechanic came to pick it up Wednesday and has had it ever since. TODAY IS WEDNESDAY OF THE FOLLOWING WEEK AND I STILL HAVE NO CAR!!!!! Imagine my fristration right now to be a teenager without their car...... :( :( :(
P.S. My car's name is Mellissa Dejon

***SENIOR CLASS PRESIDENT BLUES***

So when i first ran for senior class president i was not aware that it entailed this much headache! Perhaps if i step back and allow things to play themselves out i will have a better understanding of what to do next. Before anyone can wrongly accuse in any situation they must first be sure that everyone involved in the situation knows all that he or she needs to know. Because this job is not easy i must learn to overcome the odds and do my job no matter who else involved slacks off or points fingers. I want my senor class to have the best year possible which is my main goal from start to finish. However it seems as though some ppl have lost sight of that same goal!!! Not only will i continue to strive to make my fellow seniors happy, but i will also stick to my morals and do my job no matter what! Its not as if its easy with everything else thats goin on right now, but i will do my best to keep balanced because it means a lot to me that senior year is year all of the class of 2010 will remember for years to come. Things are starting off slower than a slug right now (LITERALY) but nonetheless i hope to have enough time to make the memories everyone of us wants!!!!

Today's lesson is: No matter what other ppl say to you or behind your back, continue to do your job and never let them get you to a point where you want to quit or even rethink doing your job to the best of your ability!!!!!!

~SiSi

Its Thursday...Friday lol IDK

This is My Friday!!!! Well we dont have school tomorrow so for anyone who goes to my schoo its Friday or a 3 day weekend. Not too much homework which makes the weekend really fun!!! We had a "prayer Service" for the beginning of the year. It was...well different and very interesting. It got me "FIRED UP" (insider)! Anyway im starting this school year with a positive attitude and good study habits, etc. Im takin difficult, yet fun classes and im ready. However im also ready for this 3 day weekend lol!!!!

SiSi's Daily Word 8/26/09

Today's Daily Word is easier said than done! It is this: Never stop knowing and believing that you can do anything & everything you set your mind to doing. All of us are capeable of greatness the only problem is we dont always believe that, and so we do not always live up to our potential. I have had this experience many times about school and other things. Sometimes no matter how much I study or how many times I read the material I just cant get the information to stay n my mind for the quiz or test! I'm sure most of you can tell by my daily words that these r things that ive been through and struggled through. I do not tell ppl or advise ppl of things I am not 100% sure of!!!! Sometimes if you just reassure yourself that it is possible and that yes you can do it, things will get better because now you believe in yourself!

~SiSi

Today's Song: Me, Myself, & I - Beyonce

SiSi's Daily Word Tuesday 8/25/09

Today's Daily Word is related to parent/child relationships. It is this: Everybody at one point in their life feels as if their parents dont understand them. What you must remember is that every parent was once your age! What we must remember is that parents dont always remember that themselves! We as their children must learn how to agree to disagree and agree to have arguments. It is normal to get into it with your parents in your teenage years, but the trick is knowing how to handle it. So today focus on letting your parents have their space, while still expressing your love and affection toward them. On the other hand if you're like me and you're "into it" with one or both of your parents right now then dont worry about it. Let them and the situation cool off. Let them hurl their comments, insults, etc. for now and let them roll off. Its ok!!! Focus on school and in my case college and more important things than this (probably petty) argument between you and your parents.

~SiSi

Today's Song: Jesus Be A Fence -Fred Hammond

SiSi's Daily Word

Good morning all! Today's daily word is really simple! It is as follows: Do not allow yourself to stoop to lower heights than you ought due to the stupidity and lack of thinking of individuals other than yourself!!! Its that simple. Here's a great example- This weekend i was n the car with my boyfriend when this guy who i consider my personal stalker has this girl call my phone n say that i dont respect the way her "cousin" feels about me n that i need to stop playin with his emotions-Now i could have easily cursed her out cuz she called restricted or let it really upset me n ruin my wonderful night with my BF but i didnt cuz ive learned that stooping to such a level is both unnecessary and a huge waste of both time and energy. I myself am trying to apply this concept to everyday life and not just this one situation. Also, allow your hatera to b able to look up at u moving forward instead of u right next to them or worse lower than them!

~SiSi

Today's Song: My Life, My Love, My All - Kirk franklin

A Question of thought

Why does life seem to always be moving so fast and you're moving so slow???

~*SiSi's Daily Word*~

So today is the second day of school n im sittin in homeroom extra bored n my mind is racin with all the things i have to do today...SIDE NOTE: Happy Birthday to my niece LaDonna. She turned 1 yesterday n we havin a party for her today!!! Love u ladybug!!! So anyway back to my daily word....Today i wanna let everyone know that people dont last forever. This isnt to dim your day down but rather to make you appreciate life and the people n yours. If you love someone tell them at least once a day. They may b gone next time u try to say it. Life is to short to let little things bother you and b stuck on ppl you probably wont even remember n a few months. Stop bein so bitter about ppl n situations. Truth is that the grudges we hold only bother us cuz the ppl we mad at r sleepin just fine at night. We the ones losin al the sleep! Dont get stressed over simple things n simple-minded ppl. Live your life for you and no one else!!! Thank God for and count all of your blessings each n every day cuz somebody didnt wake up this mornin! Well ill write back later!!! Have a good day n b as productive as u possibly can. REMEMBER: The Sky Is The Limit.....

~SiSi

*~ My New year's Decree*~

I say decree not resolution because this year i want to challenge us a country, city, and community to change the things we dont like to better ourselves and all of those who live around us. Lets work to impact future generations so that they wont have to endure some of the same harships that we are faced with. By not being so self-centered as a people perhaps if we open our eyes and even attempt to care about someone other than ourselves this world would be a better place. Let old grudges go, its a new year which means that this year will bring its own struggles and we dont need people to be still worrying about last year's struggles. Leave all of the B.S., the drama, the backstabbing, the killing, the putting down, the giving up, the its too hard attitude, the its all about me mindset, and all of the other things that need to stay and die in 2008. In 2009 pick up the self- appreciation, love of self and neighbor, the push through attitude, acceptance of the good times as well as the bad, and all of the other things that need to be resurrected and come back to life in 2009.

As for me personally, my own personal challenge for myself is to learn to appreciate my life, everyday that i wake up, but also to appreciate the people who are in my life. I am also going to challenge myself to be a better me with less stress and drama in my life overall. Aside from all of this however, i want to be a more happy person which i feel i can attain by not getting mad over the silly antics of others!

!~Stay Posted

*The one ~n~ Only SiSi

Unbalenced Friendships

I know most if not all of u have felt what im goin through right now... So I have this friend who one minute seems to really care about me, but the next its like she wouldn't care if I died! (or at least thats how it seems to me) Some people would rather spend time with my sister (no offense sis) and my niece (Donna) than me. Little do these ppl know my sister is coming as well and so is Donna. Either way if these people love my family so much, they would have had to know me to know them, but i guess all that is just out the window for whatever reason now! I try not to let it bother me but some how it still gets to me. The fact of the matter is when i was in need she didn't help me, but left me stranded, or what about the little thing where girls like to put boys before friends who were there long before the boy(s) were. I have struggled not to b that type of friend for a while, but i have a few who do it to me...EVEN ON MY BIRTHDAY! When boys act a fool and break hearts its those true friends you still have to lean on but if you aren't bein that type of friend to them, all your gonna end up with is a wall and a pillow! I have a feeling that ppl are going to assume im talkin bout them, but if this blog makes you wonder if its you, ask yourself IS IT U??? I also have a feeling that all my caring, supportive friends who read this blog will make my Sweet 16 the greatest ever! So no longer will i get upset at who can't, won't, or don't give a damn about my birthday or what im doin for it cuz ima have fun n do SiSi anyway and its their loss that they wont get to b part of the fun! LOL This time its about me, my day, & NOBODY, yes i did say NOBODY can mess this up 4 me

SiSi's Daily Word For: 12-5-08

SiSi's Daily Word for today is: Learn to depend on you! Stop depending on other people, but rather work in conjuction with positive people to make you a stronger person! When you learn to not only depend on yourself, but also to encourage yourself. Its true that you have to speak over yourself when times get hard. The only other person who can truly promise not to hurt you is God and so often we forget that he's always there. Today if nothin else just stop for a moment and thank God for letting you see today because you've never seen it before nor will you ever see it again. Beyonce had it close to perfect when she told us that all we have in the end is us; great friends are blessings., and should not b used as crutches nor walkers! So with that today there are 2 songz i say you must hear 1.) ENCOURAGE YOURSELF (gospel version) & 2.) BEYONCE ME,MYSELF, &I. Have a wonderful day, dress warm, and check back for tomorrow's daily word & song!

~SiSi

Today's Daily Word from SiSi...12-4-08

Today's word is...Never let other people affect your mood, attitude, and most of all your actions. people try to tick you off to make you act a certain way and if you get mad and react to them ur only giving them what they want! Rather you should b the bigger person and simply hold your peace until you can vent to a friend, boyfriend, etc. Always stay in control because once you give them control over you by giving in to them you are not only making them b right, but also ur guranteed to act in a way that will not have a good turn out simply because u will b acting on pure anger stemmed from your particular type of temper. So remember to keep control and b bigger and better than your enemies! Pray for them, but also dont let them have the upper hand! Stay strong and have a great day! stay readin for tomorrow's word and now im starting a new thing SiSi's Daily Song...So today's song is Tu-Pac "Thug Mansions"

~SiSi's Daily Word~

Today's daily word is... If you love someone tell that person(people) that you love them each and everyday that Gos allows you to spend on this Earth. People dont last forever, but memories do so cherish the time you have with family and friends! Never take the people you love for granted because its so true that you will never know how much they really meant to you until they are gone. Cherish them now so that when they are no longer with you your heart stil holds all the joy and happiness they brought to your life! Stay happy, stay smilin and remember to ALWAYS live life to the fulest no matter what cuz today could be your last day!

Stay readin for tomorrow's daily word...

~SiSi

~burn my bestie~

So you thought u was my bestie...NOT you lied about havin gum when you know i wanted some gum! You even went so far as to bring my new bestie into the situation by making him play along with you little plan! My new bestie M**** even put not having gum on his relationship! Who would lie about that? However you W***** on the other hand so called "dont put things on her!" There once was a song that said: "u a liar, a cheater, a deceiver, heartbreaker, and wont let you back in my life..." This is where our friendship ends...YES over a piece of gum lol because its the simple fact that you lied about it! B-U-R-N!!!! W*****!!!!!!!!

~SiSi

Me & J...what else is there 2 say?!?!?!?!

I just dont know about u...about us. One minute we're great n i couldn't b happier, only 20 secs later u make all that go away. yea its true your love is one in a million but sometimes its more than i think im ready for. U and I both know i love u more than i ever thought i could love a person n i know u feel that 2 but are you willing to give up all the nonsense to be with me?!?! Thats a question i ask you almost everyday and ive been asking that since the day we got together n you answer with "I already have!" If this is your answer then y am i left with so many lonely nights, nights without hearin your voice, im forced to go to court days for u for things u say "aren't your fault, im made to sit at home n worry when i will see you again if ever, but y??!?!?! If you say you've given up all this then y do i feel so empty on so many different occassions? Dont get me wrong you have proven to b honest, loyal, compassionate, real, just the picture perfect guy and more than i could have ever imagined or asked for, but this flaw is also more than i could have ever dreamed about as well! Our love can outweigh many things, but im ot sure about how much of this my already tattered and bruised heart can take after all, you've seen the scars n you even said yourself i dont need anymore of them n i dont deserve anymore of em so y do i feel like that was the first thing you ever said to me that wasn't true? Was it true, do you even know if it was true? You call me Mrs. Harris but what does that really entail? Does that mean that im n for an entire lifetime of what I, no we are going through right now? Im not so sure if thats what i want? Since we were little we have always been all about each other i mean ive known you since i was 6 years old n you have changed so much since we were little but was it for the better or in the long run for the worst? The love i have and always will have for you will never change, but you really are puttin me through a lot right now. i know you feel it to but your temper and all the anger that you have built up inside of you, you have to find a way to let that out, cuz if you dont....i dont even want to know what could hapen to us. I would love to do nothing more than to b Mrs. Harris but for the first time in my life it seems like a pipe dream, one of those dreams you have for a night, but when you wake up u realize it will never happen. i want us to always b as close as we always have been, even now you tell me when things happen, but only after you've reacted instead of before! You say i am your best friend, but best friends are supossed 2 talk about everything and i know we talk about almost everything, but seeing what we're going throug now, almost just isn't enough anymore! We fit so picture perfect is what everyone around us says, but behind closed doors im fightin with both myself and you! I dont know whether to b there 4 you because i know ur hurtin so bad, or b mad at u cuz ur hurtin me so bad?!?! I pray for you more than i pray for myself, I pray for us everyday but it just seems like u stopped prayin altogether. You say you need me and i tell you all the time im right here all you have 2 do is trust me n let your gard and your pride down n just let our love outweigh all the bad right now! You refuse to just step out on faith, so far everytime you've fallen i've been there 2 pick you up, so y not this time? I haven't changed and neither has my love! I just hope that we can get us together and fully/truly happy again cuz face it, when ur hurt im hurt!

J...Baby i know you think im bein really hard on you about the lifestyle you live and the things you do but its for 2 reasons, the first bein im scared 2 lose you cuz you have been with me so long im afraid to experience life without u and the second being i know you are a great person and i see your potential and what type of girlfriend would I be if i just let you stay where ur at? I know ur gonna read this which is y i wrote this part directly to you...i just need you to b all that i know you can be and all that i know you want to b I love you n u know that MUAH!

~SiSi

Im so sick of school & da drama it brings about

FIRST-, if we all have 2 b n da same place 5 days a week y make it more stressful on ourselves not 2 mention others by creating unneccesary drama 2 da situation...Whats da point???
SECOND-Why start stuff with people you only have a tad bit more time with??? Why not cherish the time so it goes by faster???
THIRD- Even if you dont always start the drama ur ust as guilty if yo name always in it! Dat means u doin da most!
Fourth n Finally- Who do u think really cares about your immaturiy towards drama...Come on we are juniors and this ish is a bunch of childish nonsense that only exists because we let it!!

What SiSi Thinks is... That everyone should be who you are, be you no mattaer what n dont worry about who doesn't like u cuz they not helpin your llife any, cherish the friends you do have by not bringing them drama that may push them away, and most importantly never blame others for anything ur not willing to get up off yo but n fix yourself i.e. DRAMA
~SiSi